Saturday, February 25, 2012

Independence. Freedom of Speech. Responsibilities. Choices.

Today, the whole text for this entry will be in red. You'll soon find out why.

I'm best-known as the person who speaks her mind but acts like she's in full control of herself. In reality, I'm not. Instead of WRITING IT ALL IN my diary. I write it for the world to read. So PEOPLE CAN HEAR ME. Basically, I'm not the type of person who complains about my family life, because honestly, nobody can fix it for me. I'm the only one who can correct the bad things that go on in my own life. That's why I'm sick of young girls now-a-days writing bull**** about their parents and hiding it...honestly, you're embarrasing yourselves and your family. My dad reads the entries I post on here, if I find it hard to talk to him or that he doesn't listen. I can make him read what I feel. Don't just go on a crazy rant. The problem will become bigger than it already is. If theres something you think that is bad or wrong going on in your life. Talk to someone who cares, someone who listens.. someone who can fix the problem.

Basically, today I went for training given by FRHAM(Federation of Reproductive Health Associations, Malaysia) at University Perdana, Mardi, Serdang on HIV/AIDS and some volunteering work(which I will have to attend in March).

They tackled subjects that include Reproduction, Women's health and rights, Abortion, Homosexuality and much, much more.


The most disturbing fact is that. In Malaysia, every 17 minutes a mother gives birth to a child out-of-wedlock. Children shouldn't bear children.

I may seemed kinda rude to those who were there but actually I was REALLY, REALLY nervous but I'm happy I got to talk to some people. Med students have SO many things in their head :P.

I don't really feel like writing about everything that happened today because I'm really, really tired. Too tired to even take a bathe.

Just to summarise it up a bit, the training was just a bit of refreshement for our young minds about our life choices. Like familly planning and starting a romantic relationship with someone and Women's rights. The topic up for discussion was very...invigorating. 

If you might be interested in doing volunteering work for FRHAM(you can visit them here).

Some pamphlets that were given out:




I really like this note here:
"An Empowerment KIT on HIV/AIDS by Young People for Young People."



It's a very noble job what these officers are doing. Instead of spending their Saturday morning's on the couch lazying around. They're spending precious time just to reach out to people.

On another note, WE BOUGHT CHOCOLATES from the Hypermart inside the University called "Agro" if I'm not mistaken. IT IS SUCH A COOL PLACE! 


 Never had THIS much chocolate in our house, Baby-chan even built a so called "Chocolate cottage". 







She even went crazy for a bit and wouldn't let me have any of MY CHOCOLATE but eventually she couldn't stand it and WENT ON A CHOCOLATE EATING FRENZY.

I am upset that my brother tagged along. He has to tag along for EVERYTHING. My mum is making history repeat itself. He is treating me the way my Grandmother treats my father. I am not my dad, I never will be. I shall not compromise. Freedom of Speech? Indpendence? You can chuck it all away because that's all invisible to my parents. For once, I'd really wish I can go for Volunteering work BY MYSELF. Honestly, I worked hard trying to contact these people, they are my resources. Sure my parents sent me there but I would use public transport if I were able to. I need this for my future and the way I see it...... I'm the only one who's interested. Why should people take Credit for what I WORK HARD FOR?

P/S: I shall be putting watermarks of "FriskyDreams" which is my lil sis's website(when it comes to pictures of her) because I'm tired of my dad teaching her to bug me about asking for royalty -_- me no have money rofl.

Saturday, February 18, 2012

Touch








Monday, February 13, 2012

BE thankful.

For parents especially.. WATCH THIS until the end. Look at what kids these days do. I'm not blaming Facebook, I'm blaming myself and my generation. We're mis-using the social networking site. I'm telling you guys my age- it might feel AMAZING to do wrong and rebel...but all bad things you do will come back to haunt you. Just sit one up no matter how awful you feel and in the end, if just for a split second, you do good- for years and more to come all the goodness will just pour into you.

What would YOU feel like if your children(I don't freaking care if you want children or not/you won't have any yaddi yaddi yadda- JUST READ) did the same thing to you?

We make mistakes but the mistakes we make should teach us a lesson, not make us regret.

Hurm..makes me think thrice and a whole dozen times about my posts BUT HEY, I'm not hiding anything. Have the guts to tell your parents that you don't like what they do or  you're unhappy- if they don't listen then write it all on your website( LIKE ME)... RITE DAD? WHY YOU NEVER LEAVE ME COMMENT?!

 
"Facebook Parenting: For the troubled teen."